From struggling to thriving.

Workshops for school teams, agencies, and parent groups on turning challenging behavior into cooperation and learning, in plain language, with real examples. Effective teaching is the best behavior management.

Struggling · Connecting · Communicating · Cooperating · Thriving

You haven't failed.

You haven’t given up.

Watch what happens when effective teaching grounded in science is applied.

About Tom

I'm a behavior specialist and a former teacher. For about twenty years I've helped families, administrators, and the professionals who work with children with autism use behavioral science, in schools across the U.S. and abroad.

What I do best is take complex material and put it into plain language people can use, then show the principles in action. Technology has always been part of how I do that. My master’s in education focused on instructional technology, and I created the Autism Education Series, eight DVDs that let families and staff see good teaching at work in real classrooms and homes.

It started at home. My daughter Alicia was diagnosed with autism at twenty-seven months, and learning what she actually needed changed the direction of my life.

Today, new technology is opening up even greater possibilities to help people work more efficiently and get better results. That's what I'm building now: BehaviorDesk, a tool to help teachers, families, and behavior teams teach positive replacement behaviors. It's still in development, and I'll share more when it's ready.

My goal has always been the same: share what works wherever there's a need, and help more people.

Voices From the Field

Hear directly from educators and parents whose classrooms and families were transformed.

"What clearly sets Tom apart is his ability to take very clinical information and make it understandable and immediately useful. The most effective trainer we have ever had work with our staff and families."

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Scott Rossig, M.Ed., BCBA
Principal | South Bergen Jointure Commission, NJ
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Antonio
Parent | Rome, Italy

"Now every child, every family, every school team that I work with — I work with through the lens of Tom's training."

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Dr. Ruth Ballinger
Autism Consulting Teacher | Maui, Hawaii

What Others Are Saying

A glimpse of the experiences shared by families, educators, and specialists around the world.

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It was the day that changed our lives forever. Fast forward — Shane is now a very happy and content little boy and his speech has come on in leaps and bounds. Tom Caffrey went above and beyond to help my family when we were in desperate need.
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Gillian Barry
Parent | Trim, Ireland
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It was through your trainings that our teams all got on the same page. Our students are thriving and our teachers remain inspired and focused. Thanks for making a big difference in the lives of so many!
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Sandra Brownsey
Program Coordinator, Center for Spectrum Services | Ellenville, NY
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Implementing the practical strategies covered in Tom's workshops completely transformed our child, our lives, and our household.
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Kelly S.
Parent | Englewood Cliffs, NJ

Wherever There's a Need

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Rome, Italy

Bring this to your community.

If you're a school administrator, program coordinator, or parent organization ready to bring a workshop to your team — reach out. Tell me where you are and what you're working with. I'll tell you honestly whether it's a fit.

Parents, too. I also offer parent training and coaching — in person in the Naples, Florida area, or remotely wherever you are. If you're at the kitchen table wondering what to do next, write to me.

That's where it starts. And sometimes that's all it takes.

Want to talk through a particular case with your team? Tell me a little about it, and I'll let you know if it's a good fit.